It is 7:00 p.m. Eastern time and Tuesday has nearly come and gone.  Today is the LBD’s Guide to a FabYOUlous you.  A series I love writing.

I thought seriously about what to share with you today.  And I pray this speaks to whoever needs to hear it.

It spoke to me as I wrote it.  Funny that.

As many of you all know, it has been a long four years for Winters and I.  Our family has embraced a lot of change, feelings I have not kept from you. With that change came a lot of sadness and grief.  As Winters put it in the intro to his new book, “we faced death too soon, we weren’t ready, we needed more time.”

There are times I write the LBD’s Guide to a FabYOUlous You and think to myself, I feel anything but fabYOUlous right now, what can I share with these women when I feel so worn out, tired and old.

I painted the kitchen the other day.  I was ready for a change.  It had been a while since I had painted a room and my body reminded me of that.  As I lay in pain I realized that sometimes we must be reminded of our limitations – to realize we have them. Sometimes we forget we can’t do everything.  We can’t be all things to all people.  We are not perfect.  And we are not Wonder Woman, even if we do own the cape.

I was reminded:

I could not paint the entire room as easily as I use to.

I could not save my parents from their illness.

I could not fix the hurt in the lives of those I loved.

I could not even finish my book, yet.

But I also was reminded of what I can do!

I can still raise the Sons to change the world and realize the only thing stopping them is themselves.

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I can still share the gospel with whomever I meet.

I can still have a dance with Winters.

So here is my suggestion, we must focus on what you can do. That is my healthy living tip for today! Yes, dear friends, let’s focus on what we can do!!!

Sometimes knowing your limitations frees you to know what you can do and what you really need to do.

I have said it before, “just because you can do something does not mean you should.”

It was a year ago this week that Winters and I returned to Georgia to launch his book.  We were received with open arms and friends hosted beautiful parties to celebrate our new life.  Amazing what can transpire in a year!

Many exciting things are happening for Winters and I. New books, new opportunities to speak, new chances to teach and change the world for Christ!

I  praise the Lord for what we can do and what we do have: the life we have created here and the friends we have.

So be blessed and encouraged abundantly today as we focus our attention on what we can do and what we are called to do. It may not look like you thought it would, but I promise it will be awesome anyway!

P.S. I think this post was actually for me but I hope it blessed you too. By the way, the kitchen looks spectacular and I don’t feel so old today and I know true love!

Now that is a good day!

Yippie!!